One of the points I keep hearing time and again is that funeral homes, crematories and cemeteries don’t know what is news worthy; or if they know something is news worthy, they don’t know how to get coverage for their good deeds. Another interesting point I personally have observed as well is that most of the time, death care operations are already sitting on a mountain of potential publicity and don’t even know it!
For example … while in San Diego this past week, I was randomly glancing at a magazine in my hotel room. It was the San Diego Magazine, March 2008 issue. Flipping through the pages at random, my eyes came across a headline: Remembering the Monster by Lisa Petrillo. Page 26. The headline caught my eye. I read the first sentence:
“Killer cop Craig Peyer has spent the last 22 years in prison for strangling golden-haired San Diego State University student Cara Knott during the cold Christmas aftermath of 1986, dumping her body off an abandoned overpass in a then-underdeveloped black hole at Mercy Road.”
The article goes on to explain the plight of the family post-tragedy and how Cara’s father, Sam, was instrumental in getting legislation passed to protect women drivers prior to his own death from a heart attack in 2004. The article also describes how the San Diego community has banded together when Peyer was up for parole this year and overwhelmed the parole commissioner’s office with letters passionately requesting Peyer remain behind bars.
A quick round of internet research about Cara Knott’s death revealed the following:
The research above took me about 15-25 minutes maximum to collect and the bulleted data above provides insight into this family’s efforts to keep the lessons learned from Cara’s tragedy into the foreground. The information collected from my internet searches is highly personalized information. We can see Cara was a bright light, studying at the local university with many goals and dreams that will remain unattained, or will they?
What I would like to know is where is the funeral home, crematory or cemetery that made the arrangements for Cara along with her family? There is such a *wonderful* opportunity here for the death care operation that worked with the Knott family to really do some good for the community as well as elevate its establishment’s visibility. Here are some ideas:
The possibilities here are endless. I literally whipped these publicity and outreach possibilities in no time. The opportunity for the death care establishment who worked with the Knott family to really reach out to the family and enrichen the community with its goodwill is surely news worthy and will help position the establishment in a highly regarded positive light and as a caring community member.
If I were the publicist for the death care operation that worked with the Knott family back in 1986, I would be all over this. I would:
See? Opportunities for publicity are sitting around all the time. They are everywhere! Look around and I promise you that they’ll be there. Open up a local magazine. Read community-based blogs. Get involved in your communities. Surely … events and ideas like these are staring at you right in the face; you just have to read between the lines sometimes to see them … but trust me, they are there.
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And as a side note, if anyone knows the name of the funeral operation that worked with the Knott family in 1986 and is willing to share this blog post with them, please do so. I did a lot of searching online to see if I could find out who they are but no luck. If this can help that establishment in any way, I would be most pleased! Thanks to all!

